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This is more of a rant. I'm 37F and my gf is 31F. I really miss the days when she would often tell me how much she misses me and when she gets to see me her eyes dances with delight.
I miss the hungry kisses that she drowns me in. The passionate love making.
Our relationship is young and only 7 months in. I know the honeymoon period is fading and I mourn for it. Nowadays her texts lacks the sweetness of baby, darling and sweetie endearments.
I know it's normal for couples to get a little bored of each other after the honeymoon period. I just don't know if the honeymoon is over or she's just not that into me anymore.
Just a few facts to note. We did move in together rather quickly after 3 months of serious dating. She still texts me daily with updates and we chat alot. We also see each other daily except for days when she goes to visit her family. She also still surprises me with small acts of service and gifts.
Am I being paranoid? I don't want to mess this up as the intensity of how I feel about her is on another level I've never felt before with my exes. She has been increasingly telling me she thrives on being able to do her own things while I do mine. I feel that she is becoming increasingly distant, but it could be me being overly worried.
I really think the problem could be me?
Tldr: GF 31F and I 37F are probably past the honeymoon phase and I'm having trouble adjusting to it. I hope Im just overthinking things.
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