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How and when do you have the “are we”/“aren’t we” official/exclusive conversation without being awkward?
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For a little context, we’re both in our late 20s, a heterosexual couple and have been seeing each other for a couple of months. He introduced me to a best friend of his and he’s met one of mine. We’ve spent literal days together and have our own little Christmas plans (not on actual x-mas). We have some short term future plans for at least a couple weeks down the line and generally seem to be enjoying each other.

At this point I’d like to just feel out where he sees this going, or if he has an expectation of us only seeing/being with each other. How do I start that conversation without it sounding like I’m trying to force him into a certain answer and so it’s not incredibly awkward in general? I honestly just want to know that we’re on the same page in terms of what we’re doing with others and what he may or may not be expecting of me.

Help please. I can just feel the awkwardness seeping out of my otherwise somewhat sensible self. A little context of when to bring it up would be helpful as well.... since my brain is currently broken with this question.

TLDR: How do you ask if you’re both seeing other people without being awkward-the “we’re both in our late 20s version” ideally?

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