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Amazing girl (22f) that I (23m) asked out starts ghosting me after agreeing to go out with me
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Okay, so here is my story. I got out of a toxic relationship a month ago. I wasn't ready to really start dating again when I met her. We started talking because of DnD, I love playing and she finds RPG's interesting, I ask her about video games and she likes everything I like. At this point I become really interested in her and keep talking to her and our conversations start to have more depth and we get to know each other a little better. She's more than just a pretty face with whom I share similar interests with, conversations with her were mentally stimulating and it was really refreshing to talk with her. She's smart and funny and she has got the sweetest most soothing voice I've ever heard. Now that I think about it she sounds like someone who came straight out of my imagination.

Now like I mentioned, when I first met her I wasn't ready to begin dating again but as we kept talking I just thought fuck it why should I let a previously failed relationship hinder me from being happy again so I finally ask her out. I was so nervous because I figured someone like her couldn't possibly want to go out with someone like me but she says Y-E-S and I say well, its perfect since my birthday is coming up this week lets do it then. I can't even begin to explain how happy she made me just by agreeing to go out with me.

However, over the weekend she just stops replying to me out of the blue.. no reason at all, just stops. And I can see that little time stamp under her name telling me that she was active just minutes ago but she hasn't even opened my message that's already more than a day old. I feel like an idiot, I've been thinking about what might have gone wrong; maybe I said something or did something but nothing comes to mind. Our last conversation was our usual goodnight talk to you tomorrow thing. I don't know why she would start ghosting me and the fact that she is makes me feel like I'm so unworthy to be with anyone. I wanna drive my car into a wall because I feel like I made a fool of myself. I'm just so goddamn frustrated and I just need to get it out of my chest... I feel like atleast she should tell me if she's no longer interested instead of ghosting me like this and making me second guess myself. IDK, just had to get this off my chest..

TL;DR: Dream girl ghosts me over the weekend for no reason after agreeing to go out with me

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