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What can I (22M) say to her (20F) if after ignoring me just tries to talk to me like nothing happened?
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guess this could be just me venting out.. I (M22) have a (F20) friend, or use to, she was like the first friend I ever had, such a great person. We talked like on a daily basis, always having fun, but we were just best friends, never saw each other differently.

There was some time we just couldn't comunicate or see each everyday for various reasons, nothing big fortunately. Time passed and then I tried to text her but getting a reply hours or sometimes days later, I even got worried something might be happening, but aparently everything was normal. I was like 'maybe she is just busy' and moved on but any time I tried to talk to her she just ignores me, my messages are left on 'read' or doesn't even read them when she is online. It was really weird but never give it much thought. Time passed again and I realized she just doesn't really care to talk to me, she talks almost daily with another friend of mine and thats fine by me, my other friend is like my brother and it doesn't bothers me at all. But it feels shitty, she was the closest person I ever had, but now it feels like she just doesn't give a darn about me anymore or she forgot about me, I never talk about this with her and never had any kind of discussion, won't have a response from her anyway. I know the best is to just move on with my life.

BUT, what could I do is she ever talk to me again? Maybe it will be only because she needs something from me, but I feel like the first thing I should say is "what the hell do you want?". It may sound childish kbut it feels like it could make me feel better, sorry for the long post.

TD;LR: my old friend ignored me for months, maybe one day she will try to talk to me, what should I say?

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