My (26f) coworker (24m) DM’s me all the time, compliments me non-stop and even showed up at my secon...

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My (26f) coworker (24m) DM’s me all the time, compliments me non-stop and even showed up at my second job. Is he into me or is he aggressively looking for friendship?

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cosmogatsby is looking for a male

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I’ve worked with him for two years, seems like a good guy and knows that I’m engaged.

I don’t respond often to his messages but respect him as a co-worker, aka I don’t give him much to work with (I’m not into being BFF’s at work) but even if I come to work in new outfit etc, he will compliment me ASAP.

I clearly don’t want to be mean or confrontational, I love my job and this guy DOES seem like a good person. What do you make of this situation, is he looking for friends or into me? How should I calm him with the messages without being direct and confrontational?

TL;DR: Co-worker seems like a good guy, but hassles me for friendship (maybe more?) and I’m not sure how to proceed.

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