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I've [29 M] dated a girl [27 F] for a few months and I like her but she's moved away
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I met a girl off Tinder and we went on a few dates. We seem to have a few things in common and I like her. She's moved back to her home city due to work reasons.

She was visiting where I lived so we met up and went out for some food. She kissed me goodbye on my cheek and told me to let her know if I'm around her city.

In the past, I've ghosted people and been ghosted but I don't want to do that to anyone else. I don't really know how she feels about me, nor does she know how I feel about her.

I want to tell her my feelings - that I like her but I don't want a LDR; it's a shame she's moved back though I completely understand and respect her decision.

I don't know whether I should tell her or just keep the 'relationship' as it is? Are my feelings fair/unfair on her? Is the wording okay or how could I word it better?


tl;dr: I met a girl off Tinder and dated her for a few months. She moved back to her home city. I like her but don't want a LDR with her. Should I tell her how I feel?

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