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Breakups I [24F] need to leave him [29M], but don't have the means to.
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SilentExpressions92 is looking for a female
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We have been together for 4 years as of a few days ago. We have been slowly growing apart, but our conversation last night sealed the deal for me. He told me that he didn't see a future with me and never wants to get married. In the same breath he said he'd miss me if I left. Well he can't have both, I want to get married some day, and I want to be/have a family. He doesn't, so I need to go.

My problem is, I don't have the means to leave. A couple months ago the store I was working at closed and I was given a $3.50 pay cut and bumped from full to part time. My savings has been dwindling and I can't afford a place on my own making what I do now. I've been looking for a new job for awhile now, but haven't had much luck. I'm stuck and it's hurting me. I don't want to screw anything up or officially leave him either for I fear he will kick me out. I just needed to let it out, thanks for listening reddit.

TL;DR: Boyfriend doesn't want to be with me long term, I'm too broke to leave.

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