My boyfriend and I have been together for a year, and we don't go on many dates and when we do it's typically revolved around sex, for example, going to a hotel room for a night to have sex, or just going to his place for sex and cuddles. We also mostly talk about sex when we text or talk, especially lately. I enjoy the sexy texting and the time we spend together but I'm getting concerned that it's too much. We usually only see each other once a week so I think he's pretty horny by the time that comes around. However, I get turned on by the idea of going out on a date, creating some romantic intimacy, and then having sex afterwards. It usually makes the sex better for me in my experience because it makes me feel loved and cherished. How can I get this across to him in a way that is kind? He's 45 and I'm 31 in case it matters.

TL;DR: Boyfriend and I don't go on dates unless sex is involved. How can I change it?