Me (23F) and bf (33M) can’t compromise

Hi everyone, So me (23F) and my bf (33M) have been together for the better part of a year. My wants and needs in life have been pretty apparent from the beginning I.e wanting kids, marriage and to move out of state and have land. He wants none of those things, and it wasn’t til a few months ago he told me he would never consider being married, which was a shock to me. I compromised on kids as I don’t really need them to be fulfilled, as well as agreed to move pretty much anywhere he wants to find a job. He’s not willing to compromise on any of these things with me and I’m not sure if I should leave. I love him so much, we seem like a perfect match other than wanting opposite things (I know that’s huge). And I’m wondering am I stupid for wanting to end this bc he never wants to get married? We’ve tried to talk it through and find a middle ground for weeks. Am I just throwing this all away and being stupid? I don’t want to compromise everything I want and resent him down the road but it’s really hard to let this go. It’s the first healthy relationship I’ve been in, he’s the first person to show me how I should be treated. Please help and thank you TL;DR me and my BF want completely opposite things in life. Do I leave?