I (18M) and my bf (20M) have been together for 2 months now, he’s a really great guy and goes beyond the bare minimum. He even drives 3 hours just to come and see me. However, I don’t think we’re compatible and I think I’m gonna break up with him.

Things were going really well until a few weeks ago when a fight we got into reminded me of my ex. He had a depressive episode and I comforted him through it to the best of my abilities and also expressed my concerns about our relationship and how I can’t be the only person helping him through these things. I was greeted by messages from a clearly intoxicated bf crying about how he’s sorry he fucked up. I was angry at the time but looking at the situation now it reminds me of when my ex and I broke up and they guilt tripped me into trying to stay together.

I’ve been trying to the best of my abilities to try and fall for him all over again and let things go back to the way they were a month ago but I find myself not wanting to talk to him as much and I’m realizing that our energies just don’t match, I’m a lot more hyper and loud with my passions than he is with his.

I want to do what’s best for myself if this relationship isn’t going to make me happy. And I’d rather not be with someone who drowns their sorrows in alcohol. But at the same time, I feel like I’ll regret breaking up with him because of how great he is and I also don’t want to hurt him. It’s been a lot of back and forth in my brain and I really don’t know what to do. Please help, I’m really stuck.

TL;DR: I’m losing feelings for my bf who’s head over heels for me. I’ve been trying my best to fall for him again but it’s not working. What should I do?