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I think i want kids but my girlfriend* doesn’t
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I (22M) have the feeling that i want kids one day and that i’d be a great dad. My girlfriend* (20F) however is set on not wanting kids. We’ve been dating 9 months. I’m so lost and confused. Last night we mutually broke up because we said we don’t want to resent each other one day because of this kids issue. We don’t wanna be in the position one day where we’re like what was the past X years for. We both still love each other very much and breaking up was the hardest thing either of us have ever done. We both cried a ton and are still texting but we don’t know what to do.

I don’t know if we made a mistake. Like i don’t even know if i want kids one day but there’s a possibility i might. And I would never force her to have kids. She’s the greatest girl I ever met and i don’t wanna have regrets. Should we get back together?

TLDR: My gf and I broke up because of wanting/not wanting kids one day, should we get back together?

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