We have know each other for almost 3 months now and for the first time we met and spend time together. He seems like a person knows what he is doing and knows a lot of himself, like says the right words about the relationships.. if I say I feel down a bit he asks is there anything he can do (sometimes through text or in person).. to me it was reassuring being with someone who knows about these things .. but I have concerns . And not sure if that’s my insecurities or something is off.. such as he talks a lot , explaining and goes into stories , professional or just fast speaking in his tone (from Pakistan , but grow up in Canada and in a financial consultant filed, so maybe that has to do with it?) often times doesn’t really let’s me to talk or more like interrupts but then he realises it. He still appears distant tho. Like not softening his voice or caring but do says caring stuff in his own way but not like he understands what I am saying .. I am confused by this contradiction .. or am I just overthinking this . He says he sexually been repressed .. doesn’t like causal things but then tried all sort of dating apps. Didn’t work out. He was married and divorced with two kids . I tried to understand the issue or difficulties in his previous relationship but he kept asking why that is important to me.. he did express some stuff. but he says its in the past .. so maybe i was trying to dig to much. he uses words like sure , sure , fabolous but don't seem genuine or just i find some things he contradict himself. like he has a face he learned to present. like his tone and actions not fully aligned with it. especially the tone. no actual sweet or caring tone. so hard to explain. he always says a good friend this or that and conversations but then when i say i am more reserved and dont have much friends he also says doesnt like people much but its part of life to socialise . like he wants to tick of boxes. its a bit strange. the other thing he tells how successful he was and given a lot to his ex and didnt kept anything. doesnt care . it will go to kids. now he prefers living a minimalist life , wasnt many things in his apartment. his work now more contract based . which is okay but then his apartment was dirty . to my standards. to be honest when later i told him, he was receptive of it . and appreciated it. needing a women prespective. apperantly, they had maids before . but its like he doesnt cares and just says what i want to hear? not sure .. the biggest thing is the lack of emotions and care in his tone.. but maybe its just the person he is? maybe cultural.. i am really confused, but then i struggle with some stuff too…

TL;DR: first time meeting and spending the weekend together.. he seems like lacks genuine affection and care but says the right words .. just rigid or too professional ..