Over a few months back, there is a woman (F20) that was going through a very hard time. We met on a dating site.(tinder) I wasn’t looking for anything particular.

This was not meeting I was looking for sex. I made my intentions very clear from the very start. Just wanted to have conversations as friends. From the moment we started talking.

About a month after we started talking as friends. She had called me before she had tried taking her life. I couldn’t possibly let this happen knowingly. So I called the cops let them know of her address. Expressed my concern for the situation.

Shortly after the situation, I get a call from a random number. It was this women’s mom. She explained that I saved her life. But she had a history of doing this sort of thing. I won’t lie if I didn’t like this woman before. (I didn’t, not in that way) this definitely was a huge red flag for me.

Then again, I felt obligated to stay talking to her so that way this won’t happen again. What happens if I stop talking to her and I N things harshly and she goes and actually does it next time? Could that be considered my fault? Knowing all that I kept my distance, but I still stayed in contact.

As time went on, I began to respond and very unique times (1am, few hours later, ect..) but every time there was a response within 30 seconds. Like she was waiting there for hours for me to respond. Even for the fastest people I understand there should be minimum a few minutes sometimes. But to respond that quickly every single time for days.

She also would stalk all my profiles on any type of social media that I had. Not saying that I mind the extra like. But any time I posted. She was the very first like. Let me reiterate she is not my type. I made that clear from the start. Told her I would stay talking to her as friends. And I didn’t even want to sleep with her.

There’s a part of me that also feel that I can’t communicate everything now. Because I run the risk of making her go over the top. She has a few diagnoses. they have her as mentally unstable. Which led to the incidents from before.

I’m not saying that I dislike this woman. Or that I blatantly want to stop talking to her. But I try to make it clear that I didn’t like her that way. But I also don’t know how to tell her peacefully not to be as creepy. Mind you this has been going on for months.

I want everything to end peacefully without feeling any bit of responsibility. Might make me sound like a jerk. But I signed up to be a friend. And it’s not like tinder profiles say that this person has any type of deeper issues. I never went to see her once in person. But I still find myself feeling partially responsible for her safety.

I feel trapped in the situation. What do I do? Am I in the wrong? If Something Happens does make it my fault?

TL;DR I (M22) met a woman (F20) who was very distressed some advice now she is obsessed over me.