Hi everyone tldr;

I met a girl on Hinge in late October of last year, she's 27 and I'm 31. We both connected pretty quickly, I got her number and since then she's been texting me every single day , she does about 75% of the initial texting/calling. Long and short of it is she's 27 and lives about 60 miles north of me north of NYC. She is moving closer to my area next week, so seeing her has been slightly long distance. Like her, I moved back in with my parents after a past break up, but moving out and near the city in 3 - 4 months. Besides that, last night I had my fourth date with her.

The date went well, we flirted a bit, I took her to Hibachi and bowling after. We had a good time and shared some laughs as well as flirting, hand holding, touching, and the occasional sexual innuendo. One thing I noticed during the date, her Apple watch went off that she got a Hinge notification that she matched with someone. We're not exclusive yet, and I haven't asked her to be exclusive, as I've been taught the way to court a woman is to hang out, have fun and hook up, rinse and repeat until they ask you where you two stand.

I'll be honest, when I was with her last night on date four, I realized my emotions are increasing more then I let myself like girls, I legitimately like this girl, and want to end up with her. It upset me slightly that I saw the notification from the app on her watch but, I know that I cant say anything as we arent exclusive yet. The discussion has not come up, and we haven't had sex, I'm thinking once she moves into her apartment and we have sex, she'll probably bring it up, I hope. I'm also talking to 2 other women but it's tapered off, and I feel like I don't really like them that much, and would drop them in a second for her.

Last night was date four, the date went well. On Instagram, she posted a story taking a picture of our bowling scores, and I noticed my name on the board was in the story, so that indicates to me that she either doesn't care if other guys see the story with my name in it, or she could play off the whole "That's my friend" bs some girls say to other guys if they do in fact see it.

I let her text me, she does 75% of the engaging and texting and I make dates. We have both been living in parents house and shes moving out next week and I'm moving back out in May, so its no question this will get a lot easier to see her, especially with us both living each other. I'm a little disappointed because it appears week with moving her "college roommate" is coming over for a week (which I think is true b/c she keeps talking about how excited she is), but that means I won't see her for probably close to two weeks. On the bright side, she mentioned spending a night together in her new apartment after her room mate leaves.

Does anyone have any thoughts as to how this sounds overall and thoughts on exclusivity? I'm getting a little twitchy as a guy but I know it's only the 4th date that we just did. After the date last night, we made out in the car for 2 mins, and she put her tongue in my mouth (I think thats a good sign). she texted me "Thanks for the drinks and bowling :). Text me when you get home safe." I won't lie, I was slightly upset she didnt text "I had a great time, would love to do it again, etc" but this is the 4th date, not sure if that will happen every time.

Maybe I'm over reacting, but how does it sound like the courtship is going? My feelings for this one are strong, and I'm dating other women but its reaching a point I dont want to anymore. At the same time, I want to protect myself so I don't get overly invested in this girl and get upset. How does it sound things are going? Again, she texts me every day.