Lately my boyfriend and I have gotten into tiny arguments about small things around the house. We’re good at communicating and have essentially cleared things up but my anxiety keeps creeping in. I’m so tired from overthinking, “what if he changes his mind about me because of x”, or “what if I am so boring and have nothing to offer him and he’s just sick of it and picking at little things”.

It’s been weighing me down a lot. Currently we live in different apartments but spend equal time at each other’s place. I am at my apartment for the next 3 days without him and sort of looking forward to having time alone to just relax. How can I best use this time, to build myself up, rather than constantly worry about the relationship?