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[Currently LDR] I (M30, Tarlac) am dating and courting this girl (F24, Metro Manila) for 2 years now. And I think the differences in our love languages is kinda hindering the progress of our relationship
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I believe we all have that 5 love languages in us. Naka rank lang sila ano ung pinaka best natin and least. Acts of Service top nya, 2nd Quality Time, 3rd Words of Affirmation and Physical Touch, then last ung Receiving Gifts. Sakin naman, top is Physical Touch, 2nd Quality Time, 3rd Words of Affirmation, 4th Acts of Service, last then ung Receiving Gifts.

I know na pag love language, it usually covers both receiving and giving aspect. But mostly sa receiving part talaga ang love language. Imamatch mo anong receiving love language nya, un dapat ang giving mo. Halimbawa ang receiving nya is words of affirmation, dapat ang giving mo, words of affirmation. Ang receiving mo is physical touch, dapat ang way ng love na ibibigay nya for you to feeo love is physical touch naman. So may mga times talaga na magkaiba rin giving and receiving natin sa love language i guess?

Sakin kasi naiba ung love language ko pag dating sa giving aspect. Ang 1 ko is both Physical Touch and Gift Giving. 2nd Quality Time pa rin. And so on.

Though dko sure kung love language ko ba talaga un sa giving side, ung panlilibre like sa labas, kakain, or bibili ng kung ano, as well as ung lilibre ko kahit sino ng gusto nilang bilhin sa shopee or literal na bibilhan ko sila nito or ganun. Dko sure. Pero hilig ko gawin kasi un. Regardless of people. Kahit strangers. Parang feel ko lagi manlibre or what pag may pera ako. So not sure. Pero dahil hilig ko sya gawin, nagagawa ko rin sa kanyan which is least love language nya.

Magmimeet sana ung love language namin sa quality time. Kaso LDR kami. Not 100% though. Like iisa lang talaga hometown namin. It's just that because of some stuff we're doing, we currently live a bit far from each other.

So mostly words of affirmation na lang nagpapa intact sa relationship namin.

Hmm i know pwede kami magquality time kahit LDR kaso calls especially video calls, ayaw nya talaga. Super introvert kasi sya. Nagagawa lang namin minsan voice call, ako lang nagsasalita, sa chat lang sya. Though nagdate na kami in person. Sobra lang mahiyain nya pa rin sa ganung aspect. Kahit pag nagkikita kami nanginginig sya.

I want to know your thoughts bout kung sakaling magkalayo ung love language ng dalawang tao, will it work pa rin ba? How?

And what quality time can you recommend for LDR?

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