I’m 21 and my fiancée is 37 we have a 4 month old baby and can’t stop arguing/fighting. We disagree on EVERYTHING!!! I work a full time job, I go to work and have a great day, I get home and instantly my day is ruined because we fight and disagree about stuff immediately.

I wanna give our son fruits/veggies, he disagrees and only wants to give our 4 month old son meat… I don’t feel comfortable with that and he gets angry when I say otherwise. I want my son to be vaccinated so he can go to school, he doesn’t agree and gets mad when I say he needs his shots. Oh wait but it gets better listen to this one… I decided before my son was even born I was gonna formula feed and he did NOT like hearing that & he did NOT agree with it. I already made my mind up before birth that I’m formula feeding, we discussed it and he forced me into breastfeeding. The day I gave birth right after he was born, the doctors asked if I was breastfeeding or formula feeding and I replied with formula feeding… he went off on me saying I’m a bad mom & I don’t care about my sons health bc I won’t breastfeed … this is not true I do care about his health breast-feeding is just not for me. He wouldn’t take it for an answer. Remind you, this is right after I gave birth. He ruined my labor. Who what’s to hear they’re a bad mom after pushing a baby out for 14 hours

I’m depressed, I feel trapped. We have good days and bad days but when we have bad days they’re really bad. We had the baby after only knowing each other for 3 months, it was too soon and we didn’t know each there well enough. we’ve been together a year and 4 months now and fight all day… some days I don’t even wanna leave work because I don’t wanna come home to fighting. I’m depressed. Would I be off better alone as a single mom? He does help out with the baby and is a good dad but just because we have a baby together doesn’t mean we have to stay together