So much of my parental burn out is due to a lack of child independence. Constantly feeling like im being pulled in 25,000 directions, especially with messes, and request to do things that they physically can do themselves. I'm fucking done being a maid. Early independance is one the solutions im working towards to relieve myself. Since we're all in the same boat, share your tips below.

Two 4 year old boys I'm teaching to clean. One is mine one is step kid. Needs options so safe they can use them without supervision and won't need an ER visit if they fuck up.

Homemade recipes welcome.

Looking for solutions for literally everything and anything - counters, floors, shower, toilet, produce, laundry, mirrors, shoes. Idgaf. You name it, I'll try it. Grandma taught you some back in the day baking soda magic? Give me the low down. All suggestions even loosely related are welcome.