Hello! My wife and I have been married for 11 years and have been in a great place with our relationship and ourselves for at least 5 years now. In the last two years, we've been exploring kinks and it's been wonderful. The sex is great and we have been totally open with each other about what we like and don't like.

Recently my wife and I independently brought up a couple different threesome scenarios. The first is bringing another guy into the equation and sharing her. The second is another girl where I'd share my wife with another girl (with foreplay probably being a double blowjob but otherwise my wife in the middle.

My wife has done the second situation several times with partners before me and loved it. She's bisexual. I'm very much into both scenarios. We both are and want to do this is a safe, comfortable way. Meeting men and women that we are comfortable with them and vice-versa.

Here's the question...I am a lawyer and she's the head of the PTA. We are liberal people but don't like in the most progressive place (but still near two cities). Any tips on kind of feeling out finding a willing man and/or woman? It may just always remain a fantasy but we are interested in running with it and seeing what happens. Thanks!