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that clingy friend
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Known her for 3 years, met her in group therapy (which should be a red flag, but me being a complete idiot ignored it) and she's so clingy. Wants to hang out every. single. week. and we should do activities she likes, otherwise she's just going to look sad & make passive aggressive comments. She complains about being isolated but:

  1. has an assistant job through her parents, it's a dead end job but she refuses to go back to school or work harder/specialize in her field to make progress. Refuses to network too. I'm part of a few organizations and every time I invite her she has some excuse and complains about being "nervous in new surroundings", like ok, I get it, but at least make an effort. You've been saying the same thing for years & haven't made any progress.
  2. Doesn't want to join an organization or group to meet new people (for example: start with a sport, go volunteer, classes in something you like, ... ANYTHING to meet likeminded people & not waste your time watching tv & social media.)
  3. complains about never having had a relationship but yet has a whole laundry list of qualities that even prince charming wouldn't qualify for. Or, she goes to date complete losers with no ambition or energy but "he looks hot, so I like him".
  4. Honest to god, she has more opportunities than most people I know but is just too lazy (her parents own a firm, they've bankrolled her entire life, her grand parents are investors, she can meet a lot of interesting people through their events).

God, she sometimes just sucks the energy out of me, like today I had a very hard exam, slept like 3 hours yesterday. She knew it ended at 11 a.m., so 5 minutes past that I get a text "wanna go for drinks tonight?" NO YOU FUCKING DUMB CUNT, I WANNA SLEEP, WORK OUT AND HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE THAT ARE NOT COMPLETE LOSERS AND STOP GUILT TRIPPING ME. The worst part is that I have to take a trip to Rome with this cunt who'll ruin it because we won't do what she likes every 24/7. Oh, I forgot to tell the best part: she's an only child who grew up in a mansion.

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