For context,I live in Scandinavia.I am not disclosing the country,as I do not want to be seen as racist or anything else.It has been now almost 3 years since my break up and to be honest,these 2 and a half years have been a complete disaster,when it comes to dating a girl.

I am an individual that doesn’t have any specific type or so.I am quite open,sometimes reserved but open to activities and being social and stuff.

I am also in a University where there’s ton of people and things to do and keep yourself busy

But it has been a real struggle.I have been open to people,welcoming and approachable,yet all I see in my path is rejection.

I have tried to change many times,develop and evolve so that I am more acceptable and easy to communicate.But I will not do it anymore

It is tiring to get rejected.Many people experience and I suppose a lot of you that are young and want to date,are getting tired aswell

I have tried all the options that are available.Going out,going to events and gatherings,using dating apps.Nothing works

So in 2025 I have decided to approach any potential individual that I meet,without changing myself and my attitude.

I have had enough of lying to myself and showing a fake me in order to satisfy some people that are way beyond my standards