People used to ask me how I am still single. Before I would feel embarrassed by it but I feel proud about it. Whenever I was dating the money that I did save would be gone over time. On women who weren’t even ready for a relationship.

Stopping going to clubs too. Music too loud to talk to anyone. I’m not afraid to approach people but I find most women weren’t interested in me. I was looking at the wrong place for a relationship.

It sucks because I (24m) actually want a relationship but women who like me aren’t ready for a relationship.

Plus imma be real, dating drops my self esteem. I’ve seen way less attractive men get with women I was talking with. Not hating but it would make me feel some type of way. Since I’m very ADHD hyperactive, I feel like it ruins dating and those moments remind me about it.

Anyways enough of me ranting, I wanna hear what y’all have to say.