In the past 8 months I’ve been in a 10 dates and I’m honestly shocked by the sheer fact that the guys I hooked up with just didn’t know how to kiss. They all went straight to using tongue and sucking my lips out of my mouth. So I would try switching it up and kissing them instead, but they wouldn’t let go. They always wanted to take the lead.

I’m so fed up because I really enjoy kissing. A LOT!!! Like, you’re supposed to let me kiss you instead of wanting to be in control. I’m getting so fed up that the last time I told the guy to just relax and let me kiss, but it still didn’t work because he kept going for the tongue. And it really turns me off to have to explain to a hookup how to do something as basic as kissing