I recently went to a male dancers performance for my birthday and when I tell you the amount of anger I felt for the performers seeing them get felt up and touched inappropriately by older women without their instruction while giving lap dances to others. I thought everyone knew etiquette when going to these types of shows to not touch the dancers unless guided to by the dancer and to keep hands to the side until asked otherwise. You are not entitled to a performers body no matter what. Just because they are undressing and topless doesn't give you permission to touch them anywhere and whenever you want to because they have body autonomy just like you do.