- Keep Your Options Open – Some guys think that plate spinning is wrong. What they don’t understand is that women are actually the masters of plate spinning. The difference is that women keep this on the down-low due to slut shaming in our society. Nonetheless, rest assured that attractive women have multiple men on the line at all times. That’s why she’s so good at being non-needy. You need to do the same thing. Multiple female prospects reduces neediness and oneitis like magic.

- Detachment – If you’re having trouble approaching the 9s and 10s that you really want, the reason is simple. You want a particular outcome. You’re attached to a particular outcome. Think about an old lady, is she hard to approach? No. Because you don’t care about the outcome. Remember this: “the need for any particular outcome gets in the way of the outcome you really want.” So talk to 10s just for fun. Just for the sake of doing it. Forget the outcome and you’ll suddenly find hot girl’s way more interested in you.

- Disagree If Your Opinion Differs – People talk about “honesty” being critical to game. And it is. So when you agree, just to agree or to please her, you’re actually being “dishonest.” In addition, women don’t sleep with guys who agree with everything she says. So be honest and say what you think. Honesty and authenticity is the most magnetic quality you can have.

- Be Mysterious – Honesty doesn’t mean you have to spill your life story on her all at once. This is a classic mistake when it comes to “honesty.” Being authentic doesn’t mean you have to disclose everything all at once. Create some mystery for her to investigate. Something to become intrigued with and chase. When it’s time to disclose your studly secrets, be straight-up honest. But the man who tells “too much too fast” becomes boring and is easily friend zoned.

- You’re Completely Confident In The Unknown – Confidence is nothing more than your behavior in uncertain situations. If you’re not feeling confident yet, remember this. We live on a rock which is flying and ridiculous speeds through a vacuum of space that no one really understands. How can anyone ever really be CERTAIN about anything? Therefore, just get comfortable as fuck with existing in uncertainty and you’re behavior around women will become instantly more attractive.

- Take Risk vs Play It Safe – Going for what you want is highly attractive. Taking risk doesn’t mean doing something stupid. But if you’re going to lean in one direction versus the other, better to take a bit more risk than be a bit too reserved. Better for her to push you back as “moving too fast” versus you moving too slow and she loses interest and disappears.

- Take Pride In Yourself – If you don’t, who will? Your body, wardrobe, grooming, mind and soul are your temple. Work diligently to improve each on a regular basis. Become a man worth pursuing and you’ll suddenly find women pursuing you.

- Scare Yourself – It’s imperative to push your comfort zone. That’s how you grow. That’s how you build confidence. Women love adventurous men. So make sure to scare yourself at least 1 time every day. You’ll go to bed a happier man every night. And if you’re not certain how to get started, here’s the kicker: If you’re not getting the things you want in life while the clock ticks, I hope you find that scary as fuck.

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