Hi, first time posting here. I'm 17F and diagnosed with BPD, which is cluster B, so not entirely sure if I'm allowed to post here. I'm really not narcissistic, but understandable if I can't post here.

My mom has been manipulating my therapist more or less. I had a session where she was there and she told my therapist "she (me) has this idea in her head I'm a bad person, when I'm not. It's just wrong"

My therapist agreed, stating how my hatred and mistrust of my mom was interfering in therapy. Because we need to take a family approach.

I've told her about all the abuse and trauma, what my parents have done. It just doesn't feel like she takes it seriously.

When I was hospitalized, my therapist there forced me to do family therapy because "I had to sort out the trauma and work on communication with my parents"

I'm just really upset over this. I'm getting a referral to a new therapist but I really don't have any trust that they will be any different.

I'm honestly just considering quitting therapy entirely because I feel like I don't get taken seriously whatsoever and it is pointless. It's getting suggested that I do therapy with my abuser and I can't stand that. I don't even know what to do, I'll take absolutely any advice.