So this just happened not even a few minutes ago and Im so pissed off and upset. My dad decided to cook some dinner for the family which I of course was appreciative of, but then as soon as my nmom walks in the door and sees, all she has to say, in the most annoyed tone humanly possible, is “oh, so that means I have to clean that up later?” Like bitch, first off, no one insinuated that in the slightest, and second, you can’t even be the least bit appreciative that he went out of his way to do something nice, and not only that, he even made a vegetarian version SPECIFICALLY FOR HER BECAUSE SHE’S VEGETARIAN. I swear to god, I can’t deal with it anymore because it just brings up repressed memories of running after my dad in the street as a child, crying and begging for I’m to come back home when my mom verbally abused him to the point where he walked out of the house like he was gonna throw himself off a bridge or something, and for the record, she did this to him twice (the second time we actually had to call the police to find him and they found him about an hour away from where I live). And she wonders why I don’t respect her at all and suffer from severe depression and anxiety to this day…