I am currently 16 weeks and from the start, this pregnancy has been made about them. I currently have a 20m old, who my Nmom watches while I go to class because I have no other options. She has created this situation where I cannot get out from under her and if it wasn't for my father, I would still be living with her. When I announced me and my fiance we're expecting baby #2 She was livid. Her first sentence to me was "Well you could still miscarry." My first prenatal appointment they couldn't find my L. Ovary. However, they did find a Subchronic Hemorrhage. I have a possible autoimmune disease so these were very concerning to my Rheumatologist. Along with my antibodies, it points towards probably Lupus. I have an SS-B antibody which has the potential to cross the placenta to the fetus causing a heart block (it's like 1% risk) I see a perinatal specialist to monitor just in case. My sister has decided to make my life harder by teaching my toddler to scream. Along with telling me, I can't be happy about my pregnancy because her friend miscarried (told me this before all the complications were discovered) My mother is sharing all my issues with her co-workers including telling them I could go infertile which I am not. She's getting sympathy from them over my high-risk pregnancy. She has also tried to get me to give her money from my fiance so she can buy herself, my sister, and all their friends land and to put her down in my will as the guardian for both kids. I've been told to quit being selfish by her co-workers for mentioning that it's hard on me. My sister told me I am a brat and I am also grounded and tried to make me go sit out in the rain for telling my mother to quit sharing my issues with others. This is an ongoing issue with them. If I'm having contractions and cannot leave I have to lay on the floor if my sisters home because she will cuss me out for laying on the couch.