I have been NC with my Nmom for 6 months now! I’ve been working with a therapist and doing some healing. I still have a long way to go but I’m very far from where I was. A lot of things have been leading me to NC. Such as the mental, emotional and financial abuse I have suffered at the hands of my egg donor. There was one instance though that finally did it for me.

I had an amazing tea cup chihuahua while I lived with my Nmom. She was all but four pounds and the sweetest little baby you’ll ever meet. After I moved out, she got very sick. I took her to the vet to find out she had congestive heart failure with about a year to live. I was heartbroken. I wanted to take her home with me but the apartment I was in at the time wouldn’t allow animals. I told my egg donor that when she takes a turn for the worse to call me and I’ll be there to say goodbye and pay to have her put down (I lived about an hour away).

That call never came. Instead my egg donor saw that she was getting worse, but didn’t want the hassle of waiting for me to get there apparently. She also would never spend money on anything that wasn’t food or drugs so of course she wasn’t going to pay herself. So she force fed my dog a bunch of benedryl and Tylenol. That didn’t kill her, it just made her really sick and made her legs go out. So this sick bitch puts a fucking wash clothe over here tiny little mouth and nose, and smothers her to death. That’s how my baby died. Sick and in pain and scared. That’s not even the whole story. I went to my egg donors house to get her body to cremate. She had already buried her against my wishes so I couldn’t. But I saw her German Shepard for the first time. She always had this dog outside when I was over so I never really saw it. This dog had matted hair and bald patches from chewing at her fur so much from a flea infestation that was left unchecked. I took her from my egg donor and took her to the vet. While there she peed and it was dark yelllow and had a strong smell. The vet said she was clearly malnourished and dehydrated. This bitch was abusing the family pets after I left and neglecting them. I always took care of the animals when I lived with her but I didn’t think that it would get bad after I left.

This is something that was inforgivable for me. She had done horrible things in her life but this takes the cake. She killed a four pound defenseless chihuahua and was in the process of killing the German Shepard (who is healthy, happy and with a new family). So after that day I got everything I needed in order to tell her I was going NC. I haven’t spoken to her in 6 months and I’m very happy about that. To anyone who read all of this, thank you.