My N-grandmother who is also my boss in a family tax business is the bane of my life. I took the job from her with the understanding that in a year or two , now maybe the 4th year, I would inherit the company with my cousin. The money is good and because of a signed do not compete Im stuck working with her even with the job being hell. Mind you the work is not the problem, the way she treats me is the issue. edit: we do have plans to move, then there will be no issues with the noncompete. it is based on distance so once we can find a house i can get a job at another office

My husband and I were the first of all her grand kids to get married. We married for love and a desire to and not because of how much she harassed me about us living in sin. Something she has yet to do with my still unmarried three male cousins who live with their girlfriends. The day after our wedding she began with the calls for great grand babies.

“ill die before I get them” “Ill pay for all the diapers” “i can take them and watch them while you work” Being her favorite lines to repeat.

Now my husband and I want kids, and have been trying for a while now, but we are having no luck. Ive had some lady issues in the past and My Dr said to wait and we could try testing after a little while longer. Not long after we began having trouble I worked up my determination and flat out told my Ngma to knock off the baby harassment. Pity me for thinking it would work.

Now she would say things like “blah blah baby, oh but Rion828 doenst want to hear that” or she would just loudly coo about peoples kids and call me in to see pictures then give me an oh so sly smile.

The cake though was when some long time customers of hers though came up to me before leaving and asked then I was “going to give Ngma babies”. Who the F does that! These people dont know me or what my life is like. I was so shocked I had to hold back tears. I had been having a lot more anxiety about conceiving due to a three month gap between cycles. My husband and I knew that I wasnt pregnant, and we were worried that im not ovulating. So this random flying monkey dealt my heart a lot of damage.

If I could go NC with her right now I would. My husband has some soul crushing student debt we are trying to get rid of, and after that I can quit if she is still stringing me along. Im horrified to think what she will do if we do finally conceive, im sure she will be proud of her choice for us to have kids now.