Here's a link to the first post:

http://www.reddit.com/r/raisedbynarcissists/comments/2syqrt/nbrothergc_got_32k_in_nmoms_pension_death_benefit/

I swear, my brother must be the biggest idiot on the planet.

Here's the post he sent me over Facebook today:

ill tell you right now though after you forged moms signature and stole $41,000 you have to make a decision if you want to split it down the middle or your going to donate some of the money to me and [autistic brother]. you can chose to do whatever but call me tonight so we can talk

So yeah, he's telling me I have to SPLIT the $41k that went towards my education. He thinks it's sitting somewhere in some bank account and that I'm just living off of it. No, that money was used towards my Bachelor's degree and my Nmom took them out because that was the only way I could go to college. I can't just go and get it back from my school!

He also thinks that he can get me thrown in jail for 4 years, as he thinks I forged my mom's signature. No, my mom used her prommisory note to sign for the loans and she gave me explicit permission to do it (as she was computer illiterate, she couldn't do it without help). I know that if it came to that, I have text message records and possibly recorded conversations to say that she knew about the loans and took them out anyway.

It's even funnier that he wants me to donate money to my twin brother who's autistic. Look, I want him to be taken care of, and he is. He's living in a group home and he's very happy there. But if he gets ANY kind of money, it has to be money that won't gain interest or he'll lose his SSI checks from the government. I do not want him getting fucked over, because he didn't do anything wrong.

This is just the beginning of the drama saga. I really wish I could just walk away, but I am holding onto some assets of the estate right now and if I recuse myself, I lose all legal rights to hold onto the items and I could be sued. But I would rather hold onto the one item that was my grandmother's.

EDIT: People keep asking me to get a lawyer, but I cannot afford one, as I don't make much money. I will look into legal aid, as a commenter recommended.