So as the title says I was raised by a narcissistic mother she always said oh your my baby boy and your were my first child so I cherrish you so much, and I know you so well , yet she doesn’t know my interests or ever cared to ask what I enjoy. etc etc. iv gone no contact with her for over a year due to her divorceing both my dad when I was 4 and my step dad last year. She was accusing my step father of being a bully yet she was the one treating him like shit. She did the same to me always saying how I’m so much like my bio father and always comparing my actions to his. Which I absolutely hate cuzz im a different person. Im a 27 year old male. I love music, hockey, dc comics, tranformers, reading books and many many more things. But yet when I was chatting with her over a year ago the only think my mother thought I enjoyed was hockey. Even as a kid she had no clue what I enjoyed, yet she knew what toys i played with lol We never ever got along and yet she acted like I was her favourite child in her world. But treats my 2 younger sibilings soo soo much different. They both graduated and recieved a grad dress, a tuxedo, beautiful dinner and professional pics. Yet when i graduated I recieved nothing. She was never there for me emotionally, when I was sad she didn’t know how to care for me. When I was happy she was passive aggressive about it. She stole money from me as a kid and never admitted to it. Lied about my father being abusive, she also never changed my diapers as a toddler( my grandparents told me this story). Refused to keep anything that my grandparents got me as a kid. The day that I became independent she absolutely hated it, because I refused to listen to her bs. She was such a narcissist, who had a fake mask in front of others. My friends moms loved her… if only they really seen her true form…