My violent abusive Nparents - see my other posts for all of their vile actions - took care of ndad’s own abusive and neglectful elderly Nparents. They took care of my shitty ngrandpa until he died and even gave him a funeral when ngrandpa never gave a shit about the family and has ABANDONED two of his kids in poverty when they were young. Ndad once said to me “I’m sure you will take good care of us when we’re old, because of the example we set of how well we’re taking care of your grandparents!” Dude, you spent my entire childhood beating me, bragging to everyone about how you’re so proud to beat me, insulting me, being violent, sexually abusing me, threatening to leave me into foster care and bragging to everyone about how you want to leave me to foster care. I WILL NOT CARE ABOUT YOU WHEN YOU ARE OLD.

Jokes on him, I have been NC for 6 years, intend to stay this way and will lift zero fingers for them during my Nparents old age. And I will certainly not pay for their funeral or attend their funeral.