So I (17ftm) have been living with my boyfriend for the past 3 months due to my father's abuse and my granddad lives in France while I live in South africa, he didn't know I had left as we don't talk often, today I finally told him and found out he sent me a pretty substantial amount of money (not like a crazy amount but a lot) in the form of a voucher to an online store, he had sent it to my dad who didn't pass it along even though we have had contact, I'm not sure if the voucher has been used or not, I have let my grandfather know I did not receive it, I assume he will check and then send it through to me but I'm not sure if he will be able to because of where he lives. I'm not sure if I should bring this up to my dad, but there are some essentials I need to buy so any advice is appreciated