Hi all,

Narc mother who i don't have any contact with as i cut her out of my life in 2018, i'm 30M from UK and didn't come from a loving/supportive family. I do well for myself now, away from emotional harm and glad i didn't turn out to be a narc like her.

Long story short, one hour ago i heard a knock at my front door and it was her saying "happy new years, your brothers in trouble, i know you don't want to be friends that's fine but your brother is in trouble".

I have this on my tapo camera device which is in the front kitchen, back door and saw her waiting aside to see if i'd react but i didn't then she came back then went to the back of my door, knocked and saw her bending down looking through the front key hole which i saw on my camera. I never answered, i felt anxious, shocked. She then said ' you only have one mother, i'll never give up trying' (my camera didn't pick up the audio)

I don't have any contact with my relatives for good reasons are they are toxic, can't be trusted i remember feeling alone around them. In may 2022 she found my address my guess is via a private inspector or seeing me secretly in the area at the time.

I also have a card from her which was given on 25-11-22 which states her address, phone number and what is the reason that i cut contact with her. I have video evidence of her harassing me at home today. It has been over an hour since she left, should i report this to 101 for harassment as it's not urgent, can i use the card and camera footage as evidence?