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Ndad repeatedly “forgets” I was a victim of SA and shows me pictures of my abuser on Facebook.
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Title says it all.

This has happened on multiple occasions. I am in my 40’s and my (sexual) innocence was taken from me around the ages of 5-7 as I was assaulted by an older kid at school and molested by my babysitter’s teenaged son.

Not only did my mom make me walk to the sitter’s house until I was 17 years old - now as an adult, my dad constantly pulls up this family’s Facebook pages to show me what they are up to (we were all once close family friends) - and this includes the guy who molested me.

My father did this again on Father’s Day, which was a good reminder of why I went no contact for two years. He learned nothing and I can’t believe I ever decided to break no contact with my folks - but a lot of people in my family were dying recently and there was very little getting around it.

Just posting today to remind you all that your parents are not the only wack jobs and it doesn’t end when you turn 18.

EDIT: Doesn’t make it any better - but my Ndad did this when I went to his house, not Online. I don’t use FB.

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