just got into a huge 45 minute screaming match being my narc mom. she called me every name in the book and used so many things i’ve confided in her about. she said i’m a pathetic narcissist and just as sick as everyone else who studies psychology. i’m laying in bed crying right now but i don’t want to feel this way anymore. i let her win for so many years. how do you guys find peace after moments like these, when your parent tells you you’re everything wrong in their life? how do you brush it off and feel confident that those things aren’t who you are? i have quiet bpd and i live in constant fear of becoming like my mom. how do i ever learn to trust i’m not a narcissist? any advice is appreciated❤️❤️