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r/raisedbyborderlines

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A survivor sub exclusively for children raised by a toxic parent or guardian with borderline personality disorder/emotionally unstable personality disorder. This is a constructive, supportive space to find healing from your abusive parent and dysfunctional home.

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ADVICE NEEDED 🤢🤮 *THIS* IS BPD! PLEASE WELCOME...! RECOMMENDATIONS VENT/RANT Living Well is the Best Revenge SEEKING VALIDATION SHARE YOUR STORY SUPPORT THREAD BPD Mom, Therapy Enthusiast, Here For The Vibes MONDAY MORNING BOOK CLUB YAY! I DID IT!! ENABLERS AND FLYING MONKEYS dbpd mom, edad OTHER MUSIC GRIEF HUMOR MAKING IT ALL ABOUT THEM DREAMS AND NIGHTMARES they/them - 18 - out of the house - in contact WEEKLY PROGRESS THREAD POSITIVE/INSPIRATIONAL BPD ILLOGIC BPD DADS PLEASE WELCOME...! BPD mom, mostly absent dad PET LOSS
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to r/raisedbyborderlines by raviolifordinner
5 months ago
Update: uBPD got hammered at my baby shower this evening
VENT/RANT
to r/raisedbyborderlines by Dull-Touch283
6 months ago
Does your BPD parent ever say they feel like they’re walking on eggshells around you?
to r/raisedbyborderlines by Technical-Sun677
9 months ago
So
to r/raisedbyborderlines by finalthoughtsandmore
6 months ago
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Having a Borderline Mom Be Like…
MAKING IT ALL ABOUT THEM
to r/raisedbyborderlines by castironskilletmilk
10 months ago
I’m pregnant for the 1st time and miss my mom
VENT/RANT
to r/raisedbyborderlines by JosieintheSummer
10 months ago
I hate asking for things!
VENT/RANT
to r/raisedbyborderlines by JosieintheSummer
10 months ago
I hate my Mom!
VENT/RANT
to r/raisedbyborderlines by vhelena
5 months ago
Does anyone here suffer from Ocd as a result of being raised by a pwBPD?
ADVICE NEEDED
to r/raisedbyborderlines by vhelena
5 months ago
The Bear Donna Berzatto
VENT/RANT
to r/raisedbyborderlines by JosieintheSummer
10 months ago
What books have been helpful/healing to you? (and pathetic haiku)
to r/raisedbyborderlines by vhelena
5 months ago
Sibilings relationship
ADVICE NEEDED
to r/raisedbyborderlines by castironskilletmilk
10 months ago
Reminder for the holidays
to r/raisedbyborderlines by lustreadjuster
8 months ago
Should I Trust Her?
to r/raisedbyborderlines by lustreadjuster
8 months ago
Positivity Challenge
to r/raisedbyborderlines by lustreadjuster
8 months ago
Awesome Book
to r/raisedbyborderlines by castironskilletmilk
10 months ago
What are some of the songs/art/media that help you describe what you have been through with your personwBPD?
to r/raisedbyborderlines by castironskilletmilk
10 months ago
What weird words or little random events cause you to spiral?
VENT/RANT
to r/raisedbyborderlines by lustreadjuster
8 months ago
Formal Diagnosis Achieved
to r/raisedbyborderlines by finalthoughtsandmore
6 months ago
Blaming a Child
to r/raisedbyborderlines by finalthoughtsandmore
6 months ago
I was so proud of her
to r/raisedbyborderlines by lustreadjuster
8 months ago
Does Anyone Else Have Issues Trusting People?
to r/raisedbyborderlines by castironskilletmilk
10 months ago
What major/important event did your BPD parent ruin/make about themselves?
to r/raisedbyborderlines by finalthoughtsandmore
6 months ago
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How many texts does it take to get center of giving up?
*THIS* IS BPD!
to r/raisedbyborderlines by finalthoughtsandmore
6 months ago
DAE have a permanent negative monologue?
DREAMS AND NIGHTMARES
to r/raisedbyborderlines by EngineeringDismal425
6 months ago
When did you first realize something was “off” with your uBPD parent or family dynamics?
SHARE YOUR STORY