r/raisedbyborderlines
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A survivor sub exclusively for children raised by a toxic parent or guardian with borderline personality disorder/emotionally unstable personality disorder. This is a constructive, supportive space to find healing from your abusive parent and dysfunctional home.

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dbpd mom, edad VENT/RANT ADVICE NEEDED PLEASE WELCOME...! BPD Mom, Therapy Enthusiast, Here For The Vibes 🤢🤮 *THIS* IS BPD! RECOMMENDATIONS SHARE YOUR STORY Living Well is the Best Revenge SEEKING VALIDATION SUPPORT THREAD MAKING IT ALL ABOUT THEM DREAMS AND NIGHTMARES
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Update: uBPD got hammered at my baby shower this evening
VENT/RANT
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Does your BPD parent ever say they feel like they’re walking on eggshells around you?
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So
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Having a Borderline Mom Be Like…
MAKING IT ALL ABOUT THEM
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I’m pregnant for the 1st time and miss my mom
VENT/RANT
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Does anyone here suffer from Ocd as a result of being raised by a pwBPD?
ADVICE NEEDED
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The Bear Donna Berzatto
VENT/RANT
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Sibilings relationship
ADVICE NEEDED
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Reminder for the holidays
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Should I Trust Her?
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Positivity Challenge
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Awesome Book
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What are some of the songs/art/media that help you describe what you have been through with your personwBPD?
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What weird words or little random events cause you to spiral?
VENT/RANT
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Formal Diagnosis Achieved
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Blaming a Child
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I was so proud of her
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Does Anyone Else Have Issues Trusting People?
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What major/important event did your BPD parent ruin/make about themselves?
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How many texts does it take to get center of giving up?
*THIS* IS BPD!
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DAE have a permanent negative monologue?
DREAMS AND NIGHTMARES
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When did you first realize something was “off” with your uBPD parent or family dynamics?
SHARE YOUR STORY
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Have you managed to convince them to see a therapist?
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do I have to keep trying?
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The whiplash hurts more than her “normal”
VENT/RANT