Hi. I'm a fair-skinned Asian, originally born and raised in Southeast Asia and now living in the US, looking to chat with a white guy. It would be nice to get to know each other, talk about life, and be intimate or dirty when the mood strikes us. Perhaps something like friends with benefits.

When things get heated up, I enjoy sensual, erotic lovemaking and the naughtier side of sex where I enjoy being submissive. I'm not into impact play, pain, or aggression, at least not extreme ones. I view being submissive as something generally born out of a relationship where there's connection, affection, intimacy, and a desire to make my partner feel good rather than being submissive out of fear, discipline, or toxic masculinity.

I'm also hoping to find someone who is interested in talking about and understanding the psychology behind our turn-ons and exploring creative ways to play it out through kink. For example, one of my fantasies is to bring my white partner home to meet the family and be intimate with each other while everyone is asleep. The idea of sneaking away to the bedroom in the middle of the day is definitely an arousing thought but would make the family suspicious, but it's hot to belong to a white man and do what he wants. There are a few reasons behind this fantasy that I'm happy to share more through chat. But if you feel this strikes a chord with you, I'd love to hear from you.

I'm looking to start out through text and move to voice calls on Skype or a different platform that we both feel safe and comfortable with, especially when things get heated up. I don't really trade pictures or do video calls because I don't want my face or body circulating the worldwide web. I understand that this is a deal-breaker for a lot of guys, but I guess this is what happens when you grew up in a conservative Asian family. Audio, for me, suffices, at least for now, and I find it can be very erotic too.