Hi there. Fair warning that this is gonna be a long personal, but you’re worth it. TL;DR: I’m an experienced, creative, active Dom looking for a local sub who is equally passionate in life, and yearns to give into/be challenged by her trusted partner for a rewarding kinky relationship.

Physically - I’m 26, white, dark brown hair/eyes, active/athletic (6 feet/~175 lbs),clean/DDF. Happy to verify each other with photos early on.

Personality - I’m a mixture of passion, support, and just the right amount of deviancy. I’ve been described as playful, sadistic, caring, communicative, honest, creative, mature, witty, curious, easy to talk to, driven, patient, open-minded... and a lot more. My love languages tend to be quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation.

Daily life - I’m goal-oriented. I have a career that I’m passionate about, and love to juggle multiple projects (both professionally and hobbies). I live in my own place and am financially independent. #Who and what I’m looking for Submission and D/s are not mutually exclusive from having agency in life. In fact, they’re complimentary. I’m looking for someone who considers herself passionate/driven/ambitious (whatever that means to you) - but also dreams of relinquishing control in the right hands. Someone craving to be with a trusted partner who will challenge her, and help her succeed in everything she desires in life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a holistic D/s dynamic... This lifestyle is meant to make us be the best version of ourselves for each other, so shall We?

My ideal partner has the same qualities that I bring: she loves to explore/learn/try new things, she’s active/takes care of her physical mental health, she has goals, she is communicative, empathetic, giving, loyal, honest, kinky, emotionally available, not looking for a “sugar daddy”, and serious about finding a Dom partner. I’m open to every s-type identity (sub, little, middle, pet, brat, etc.).
My only dealbreakers in a partner are:, any STIs/STDs. Do you already recognize yourself and think we could be compatible? Don’t hesitate to text me I know it can be intimidating to message so please know you are always appreciated. <3

The kinky stuff Experience - Whether this is your first or fiftieth rodeo, I’m welcoming of all as I’ve been in the lifestyle for the past 5 years. In that time, I’ve had D/s relationships to different degrees (including DDlg, TPE, M/s, low/mid/high protocol) which have led me to narrow down what I need and look for, hence this post. I’m an open book and always happy to answer anything on your mind. If you’re curious and inquisitive, we’re probably a perfect match already!

D/s dynamic - I consider myself your catharsis, comfort, and accountability rolled into one. Nurturing but exhilarating, sweet yet firm, dominant but respectful. The one constant is that I’m big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space but something unique to [us]. My partner is a priority for me, just as I want to be for her. That means I would like to chat regularly and spend time together since this is a relationship. I’m also a believer in (negotiated) structure and rules beyond the bedroom. Each dynamic is unique so it’s not a one-size-fits-all. Obviously nothing happens until we’ve established clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Much more to discuss together.

My hard limits - ABDL/diapers and scat

My kinks - Include impact play, hypnosis, bondage/shibari, sensation play, orgasm control/edging, some humiliation/degradation, praise, service, training/tasks/protocols, among others..