Hello reddit,

I've had a birthday since I last began my search, but if this is up I am still looking.

So I've found it quite hard to write this, there is of course much more to me than I can possibly put down in this post, but I am looking for a sub in the UK - with any level of experience.

From complete beginner to someone with experience.

This can be online-only, online with the aim of becoming irl, or if we are lucky enough to live close to each other then I'm happy to get to know each other, with the aim of getting a coffee or something tasty to eat when you're ready.

As for a little about me.... I have been in 3 long term kink based relationships, lasting 3, 2 and 1 years. I have also been involved in some shorter term arrangements so I have roughly 6 to 7 years experience being a Dom.

Being a dom for me involves communicating well with my sub. I won't expect you to bend to my will and praise the ground I walk on before we throughly know each other and we agree what a dynamic for us should look like.

I want to get to know you, find out what makes you tick. I want to build a strong bond of trust and communication with you, so when I do earn your submission we have the best of times together.

I'm open to trying new kinks as no one is ever a finished article and I look forward to all the experiences I am yet to have.

We will be using safewords, doing proper aftercare, talking about any triggers you have so we can avoid them, and making a proper list of kinks, soft, and hard limits.

You don't have to be into all my kinks and I'd never force you to try a kink or do it without discussion.

I'll help you try everything we are both happy to facilitate, and I'm an open book, so please do feel free to ask me absolutely anything.

A list of all the kinks I am into are below, but I may have missed a few.

Like and tried:

Spanking, Biting, Blowjobs, Cum in mouth, Cum on face , Cum on body, Rough sex, Choking, Bruising, Bondage (prefer restraints to rope), Sleep play (Somno), Praise, Lingerie, Dirty talk, Teasing, Namecalling, Fingering, Fisting, Orgasm denial, Various toys, Hair pulling, Blindfolded, Ice cubes, Shower sex, Begging, Humiliation, Degradation, Time Planning/Scheduled tasks, Bodywriting, Slapping face, Pain, CNC, Nipping/Pinching, Deepthroat, Free Use, Stretching, Forced orgasms/overstimulation, Whips, Floggers, and Paddles, Audiofolded/Earplugs, Clothing control, Physical humiliation/degradation, Positional training, Slapping tits, Slapping pussy, Slapping thighs Spitting, Sloppy Blowjobs, Nipple clamps/weights, Food play, strawberrys, ice cream, cream, Public play, Cumplay, Spitplay

Hard limits:

Blood, Scat, Needles

Feel free to chat or message, but I look forward to hearing from anyone who decides to get in touch.