Well hello there. It’s a pleasure to meet you.

I am 49 years of age, and I write for a living. I’m kind of a coffee snob. Soccer is my sport of choice and hiking is my preferred form of exercise. I almost always have a podcast in my ear, except when I’m writing. Love heist movies and crime documentaries and dark comedies.

My marriage is happy but non-sexual. While an emotional connection makes everything better, I will not bring you drama. I just need a little more intimacy, more physical touch, more personal connection, more butterflies. Something new, something fun, something carefree.

I am dark and handsome but not tall. About 5’6”, shaved hair, salt & pepper beard (more salt than pepper lately, to be honest), dad bod. Bright blue eyes and soft, full lips. I am a creative and attentive friend and lover. I’m well-endowed, if that matters. Happy to share photos once we're a little bit acquainted.

I work in Madison and live just a bit west of town. My job is busy but flexible, and I’m very mobile. I’d love to chat and flirt by text or your favorite chat app, talk on the phone, maybe even video chat … get each other all jittery and nervous … then buy you a coffee to sip while our knees brush against each other under the table… and then ... well, we’ll see.

Maybe you’re a younger woman interested in an older gent … maybe you’re about my age and just need the same things I do. Maybe you’re single and enjoy being the secret paramour; maybe you’re married and neglected. In any case, you’re intelligent; you’re a little witty; you’re flirtatious; you’re willing to communicate pretty openly. And If you’ve read this far, I’d like to know you.

Chat is preferred but message would be fine, too. Talk to you soon, I hope.