Married, discrete man in Winston Salem or surrounding area looking for a woman to connect with. Can be more friends than benefits.

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More details can be provided if you want but following an affair my wife had, she is onboard with me seeking someone outside our marriage to so I can receive all my needs. Right now, I need attention, to have that amazing electric energy that you get from the build up to those first kisses, to feel alive from random chats into the long hours of the morning. I am looking to develop this special connection with only one person and would feel more comfortable if there is a similar limit on your side. I mean, life is complicated enough so let's build this on a foundation that enhances our lives instead of causing more stress, right?

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Sex isn't too difficult to find if a person wants to look for it. But intimacy? I badly need that. Stimulating and engaging conversations? You're making my knees weak.

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I have no intention of using our time to complain about my wife. However, if you have a significant other and need to vent, I will patiently listen and only give advice if you specifically ask for it.

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While I would like to meet fairly early and regularly, let's start things through chat first. Reddit chat is preferred, but knowing how it can get buggy, Google Chat would be my backup. For the first couple of weeks, we don't even need to worry about trading pics. Just getting to know each other on that deeper level and letting that electric energy build.

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We all have different situations and backgrounds. Our lives don't always end up where we imagined them. That doesn't change the fact that we still need to receive attention, feel the intimate touch of a lover's fingertips run across your skin, and share a real connection - if only in secret.

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If any of this has struck chord with you, I would love to hear from you. Let's make our lives a little less lonely.