I’d like to share a bit about what my physical needs are in a relationship for a bit of context. And then I’d like to hear about what your physical needs are in a relationship.
A brief list of some of the sexual fantasies I’ve posted about: a shared candlelit bath, naked yoga, playing piano for you nude, being drawn nude, massaging you, super soaker battle/wet T shirt competition, sharing a sleeping bag at night and watching the stars and kissing your breasts.
For the most part, my fantasies are about fun and playful ways for us to get each other’s clothes off. The sex I want is gentle and playful. If we’re laughing while we’re naked, we’re doing it right.
Equally important is being touched in ways that are romantic and caring, but separate from sex.
A few examples: I would like my partner to play with my hair. There’s a meme that’s been around a long time that women really like foot massages. Tbh, I’ve never had a foot massage, and I’m very curious to know what they’re all about. I’d also like to have my partner read to me while I lay my head in their lap (and vice versa). You can never cuddle too much. I’d also like to take some time everyday to just sit with my partner for a bit and try and be really present and mindful, and then kiss them without it leading to sex.
I have a number of ideas of ways I might show a future partner how much they turn me on (eat them out a lot, mostly) or how I feel about them in general: brush their hair, massage their back/feet/legs/etc., cuddle.
The person who knows best what you need is you.
What makes you feel desired sexually? What does an amazing sex life look like to you?
How do you want a partner to touch you non sexually? What would make you feel really cared for?
More about me here: https://www.reddit.com/r/New_Huckleberry_6807/comments/1grjvoj/about_me/.
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