I would like to start with a small warning to anyone reading this; I am looking for something a little different. I am interested in finding a relationship involving: role reversal / gentle femdom / kink dynamics / FLR / etc. If you know what these are, or are simply curious, then please keep reading! If you think this all sounds incredibly weird, then now is your chance to save your eyeballs and get the heck out of here!

With that being said, I am still very much a normal guy with normal everyday hobbies and interests. I’m not looking to throw all my kinks and fantasies at you. I want to meet someone who hopefully shares some of my regular interests as well as the kinky stuff. I want someone I can talk and laugh with everyday, to take on dates and watch movies, to hang out and go on adventures with. I’m also looking for someone that likes to take the lead, whether that be just in the bedroom, or in everyday life situations too.

I’ll apologize in advance for the novel I am about to write, but I’d really like to put myself out there in the hopes of meeting someone to explore this lifestyle with.

About Me:

I’m a very easy-going, goofy introvert that enjoys sports, movies, reading and video games (can I get a little more generic with these interests?). I enjoy the kind of hobbies that I can do on my own to relax – but I’ve also been longing to have someone to share these things with. I am a huge fantasy book fan and none of my friends are nerdy enough to talk about them with me. I am actually not a terrible golfer, want me to teach you? Maybe you’d like to spend a lazy day cuddling and playing video games?

I’m 5’11, 170ish lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, slim/athletic. I have an active lifestyle and enjoy working out. I try to eat (relatively) healthy. Taking care of my health is something that has become very important to me, and I’d love to meet someone with the same values.

Physical attraction is important, which makes this kind of online dating awkward at times. I’m happy to share a face/body pic after establishing that you are a real person and not some weird dude trying to blackmail me.

Okay, enough with the boring self-descriptions that make me cringe reading it back. Describing myself is not my strength! I’m secretly really cool!

Kinky Characteristics:

While I do have my own kinks, I want to start by saying the most exciting aspect of D/s relationships for me is the power exchange. The thought of being under someone else's control is ironically... freeing. I understand that being a sub takes a lot of commitment and I'd love nothing more than to find the right person to commit to. My interests range from things as simple as having my hair played with and doing chores to make your life easier, to some of the more common BDSM interests like bondage and pegging.

I have a bit of BDSM experience but I’m still relatively new to this. I enjoy the softer side of domination, but a little sadism never hurt anyone, wait I mean...

• Bondage - tie my hands up while we cuddle or leave me hogtied for hours - both sound fun.
• Tease and Denial - Big fan of being teased. The denial part doesn't sound as nice, but I guess that isn't up to me.
• Orgasm Control - Kind of goes with the teasing and denying.
• Service/Tasks - A big part of kink for me is making my partner happy. I'd love to do things that make your life easier, or give you a laugh, or just because you said so.
• Spanking/Impact - I think a bit of pain could be fun.
• Collars sound great, would love to wear one someday.
• Curious about pegging and chastity.
• Open-minded about trying most kinks.

Hard Limits:

• Toilet/scat - just not for me
• Extreme pain/blood - ouch
• Forced bi/cuckolding

About You and What I'm Looking For:

I would love to hear YOUR fantasies too. Communication is important and I want to know what I can do to make your life better. Want me to bring you food? Give you a massage? I would love nothing more than to make you happy!

Obviously the BDSM dynamic is partially what I’m looking for, otherwise I wouldn’t be posting here. More importantly though, is someone that I can really connect with on a personal level. I am monogamous and not particularly interested in polyamory. The only situation I would be okay with that is if you are a Domme that has multiple subs. In that case, if you are just looking for a casual D/s relationship, I could potentially explore it. But I am mainly interested in finding an actual loving relationship along with the kink.

I would prefer someone between the ages of 20-32. This isn't a hard limit though. If you're slightly outside that, I could make an exception for the right person.

I live within an hour of Toronto. I would prefer someone who is in reasonable travel distance. I currently do not have my own place that I could host, but I am working on that. If you read my post and live further away but really think we’d be a good match, feel free to send me a message. Physical touch is very important to me however, so there would need to be a possibility that one of us could relocate eventually (maybe to a location that people can actually afford to live in!)

I cannot stress this enough, but you must be a 6ft tall Amazon Goddess whose only purpose is to fulfill my every fantasy. You need to make enough money to support us both so that I don't have to work or do anything. My only job is to be submissive and that should be enough to satisfy you. On top of that, you should also be able to tell that I am joking.

I have been exploring the possibility of this kind of relationship for almost 2 years now. I have met some incredible people, but I haven’t met my person yet. I don't usually post this is non-BDSM related spaces but I want to put myself out there to as many people as possible. If this was the weirdest thing you’ve ever read, then I am terribly sorry! I did not mean to traumatize you! But, if you found this interesting, then please send me a message or chat 😊