So, this is a weird one and I understand that means I may not get a lot of (if any) responses, but it can't hurt to try so here it goes!

I'm a 30 year old gay trans man (on t, had top surgery, still have original plumbing), I'm white, and I'm on the heavier side. I'm not looking for dates or relationships, but my libido is pretty high so ideally I'd like a fwb or some nsa thing. Except (due to bummer reasons I won't get into) I have severe anxiety when it comes to meeting people and hooking up, which has gotten in the way of my libido for years and frankly I'm sick of it lol. Soooo I'm looking for a guy to help me get there by being willing to take things slow and help me jump over that hookup anxiety hurdle.

Online I have no problem being sexy and messing around, but when meeting people offline I just freeze up and panic, and it'd be nice if I could get that to stop lol.

(For what I'm into as a person... I like monsters, horror, video games, anime/manga, ttprgs, writing, sewing, podcasts, and cooking.)

I'm looking for another guy (cis or trans, it's all good) who's in the age range of 27- 40 who's patient, isn't pushy, and is okay with relaxing as we figure things out.

So if you fit those criteria and you don't mind chatting to see how we mesh, maybe we can meet up and start by chilling out and jerking off together, or watch something while touching one another, and gradually move up from there as I (hopefully) get more comfortable. I can host but I also don't mind traveling as long as it's accessible via ttc!

If interested please send me a message telling me your age, your favourite colour, and your favourite movie. That way I'll know you actually read through the whole post lol. Otherwise, I'll just ignore the message.