I want to start this post by thanking all the awesome people that have made their r4r pleasant and pleasurable. The beginning of the night was ruined by one of the Redditors I invited over for a F4MM. He tried to push my boundaries became disrespectful when confronted, we ended up kicking him out.

I made this F4MM post earlier this month.

We had two men chosen, we'll call them John and Bob. They both video chatted with us together for verification, exchanged test results and vaccine proof with no issues. We met them both irl for a drink, they seemed to have a good vibes.

Both of our guests arrived last night. Everyone got comfortable, Doug and Sara literally had popcorn ready to watch us (why are my partners so weird 🤣). I reminded John and Bob of the rules, no touching me, no thrusting their body, just stay still and relax. I revealed the black lingerie (see my profile) I had been hiding under my robe, positioned myself and got to work.

I was enjoying myself, Bob was enjoying himself, John...wasn't as aroused. Neither men had expressed any issues on performing in front of others, but maybe John was just a bit nervous. Performance anxiety is a thing, that's fine and I didn't want him to feel bad about it. I checked in on both of them, asking if there's a spot they would like me to focus on more, go faster/slower, or change positions. Both said they were enjoying it but I could tell John's tone was a bit off.

John asked if he can stand instead of sitting on the couch, not an issue, maybe changing position will help him out. I continued to do my thing, Bob was enjoying himself as I moved back and forth between them.

John started making comments on how sexy I looked, how he wants to see what's under my lingerie...I took it as dirty talks and continued because he got a bit better but still wasn't quite there yet. I could feel his body moving, I ignored it and thought he's been staying still for a bit now, just trying to balance himself and what not. But it became evident that he was trying to push himself deeper when I was with him. I moved away from John and confronted him on what he was doing. Excuses were said and he thought it was a good idea to grab my wrist to pull me closer.

Doug intervened and broke us apart, there were shouting and arguing. Doug escorted John out of our Airbnb, leaving Bob sitting awkwardly on the couch. Doug and Sara checked in with me and said it's up to me if I want to continue. The mood was ruined but I felt bad for kicking Bob out as well, considering he had been nothing but respectful. I told Bob let's take a shower together and see where things go. If I don't manage to get back into the mood, at least I'll finish him off in the shower. Bob expressed that it's okay that he can just leave, I insisted otherwise, Doug and Sara both encouraged him to join me.

Bob joined me and he was glad that he did. We had some good laughs in the shower, my mood did got better so I told him don't bother getting dressed. I'm not going to write much about this part, as this is more of a rant post about the John who we had to kick out.

Tbh, it would of been better if John was a no show'/ghosted us. But that's another topic for a different discussion. If you agreed to meet up with someone, please respect their boundaries, it doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman. It'll just ruin everyone's day/night and jeopardize any chance of further meet ups.