Hey fellow redditors, I have been in the swinging lifestyle for a couple of years as a solo male and came across some very lovely people both couples and singles. Now I am looking for a long term partner and explore more with them.

About me- I am 30 bicurious male, 5’8 165lbs, in a good shape and work in the fitness industry. I am working towards financial freedom so I can travel more and live life and looking for something with similar interests and goals. I like weight training, volleyball, hiking, trails, kayaking, board games, video games, anime, bowling. Apart from this I like reading and being cozy at home. I am a big foodie so would never say no to a cheesecake and believe in balance and moderation. I prioritize communication, consent and care (after, before). I love people who put effort of any kind. My love language is physical touch and acts of appreciation. I absolutely love cuddling making out forehead kisses and exchanging massages. I would love you to sit on my face and call me a good boy eventually lol. But that is something I enjoy more when we eventually vibe enough.

About you- between 20-35 female and has a career and ambitious, polite, knows how to communicate and want something long term eventually. I am attracted to women who like being physically active cuz I think it will help us to connect on a deeper level regardless of the looks part, not fixated on that. I would love if you a dom leaning switch. I am a pleasure dom learning switch but want to explore my sub side as well.

I would like to go for a no expectation date and see what vibe we have and go from there. Again my end goal is to find something long term to explore the lifestyle together in the capacity that we both comfortable with. I am open to go monogamous if we find each other compatible in that sense.

I hope you guys find what you are looking for. Cheers!!