I’m looking for a casual, fun friends with benefits situation that also has a kinky edge. I’m not interested in anything super serious, but I do want someone who can vibe with me as friends both mentally, as well as physically! I'm pretty new to kink but have been fortunate to have had a few people showing me the ropes (pun intended) as I dipped my toe into BDSM this last year.

My kinks include:
Bondage and restraints
Spanking and impact play in general
Roleplay
Sensory deprivation
Punishment/discipline (sad to admit I like sassing and being put in my place)
Free use (carefully negotiated)
Light butt stuff
CMNF
Making out, cuddles, aftercare
Open to trying many others!

Hard no to slapping/name-calling/degradation, and oral or anal sex

Me: I’m a pro at Netflix binges, sneaking snacks into cinemas, and snoozing my alarm clock. I’m also 99% sure I could beat you at any game. On an unrelated note, I come equipped with an unshakable faith in my own abilities, regardless of reality. At any given moment I’m armed with bold opinions and nothing to back them up. I come wrapped in a slim melanated package.

You: Doesn’t matter what size, shape, or look you have, but I’m looking for someone who takes care of themselves, physically and mentally, has prior experience, and clearly knows their own likes and boundaries. I like taller men but it's not a dealbreaker. Someone confident who can hold a conversation and is easy to talk to. I can host, but a non-negotiable for me is you must also be able to host in your own place where you live alone.

If you’re interested, I’d like to get as much info as possible upfront to see if we’re a good match. When you reach out, please tell me about yourself, what you're looking for, and what you're comfortable with in this type of arrangement. I’m happy to share more about myself too!

If this sounds like something you’d be into, feel free to message me – let’s see if we vibe!