Hi

Have found some success on reddit in the past and though it seems the glory days are far behind, I'm trying my luck to see if I can find someone compatible who is searching for the same thing.

What I'm hoping to find is a casual relationship, one where we are compatible and enjoy each others' company, and maintain mutual respect throughout. In an ideal world, we can spend time together in and out of the bedroom, but I'm not going to push my luck too far. At minimum, we should be compatible sexual partners with potential for friendship or a relationship down the road. I frame it as potential since I am freshly out of an emotionally abusive relationship, one where my values and boundaries were repeatedly tested and I'm truthfully pretty drained emotionally. I'm turning into my support network, friends, hobbies, just to get my mind off it. It may take some time for me to be able to trust someone fully again, at least in a relational sense. I am being upfront about this in case you were hopeful for a stronger connection; this is what I can offer for now.

That said, for the right fit, and with enough time and familiarity, I absolutely have a ton to offer. As stated, respect is a major element of my relationships and that will never waver. Respect for your emotional health, your time, and your values will always be observed and I expect the same in return. I love to share laughs, take in comedy, be active, into sports and fitness. Love being outdoors too, albeit not as much when it's -15... into live shows (got 2 metal concerts to attend in 2025 so far), reading, cycling, weightlifting, gaming casually, writing and performing music.

From me, you can expect: - maturity, honesty, consideration - ability to host (I live alone) - clean and regularly tested (and willing to obtain fresh testing before anything sexual)

Physical: - muscular physique, I lift 4-5x per week - attractive - average height - many tattoos

Kinks and sexual interests: - rather cover this through conversation once you've established I'm someone who interests you - experienced, however

From you, I would greatly value: - emotional maturity - respectful in nature - athleticism (not rooted in anything superficial, but many of my hobbies and interests rely on my own so I value it greatly in others) - not cheating

That's pretty much it. As mentioned, I have a lot to offer for the right fit. Maybe that's you? DM to find out, have a great day otherwise.